What if I told you that you had a great group of friends that you would spend time with?
You all had similar interests and found it fairly easily to come to an agreement in regards to anything
You would watch movies, go to bars, party like rock stars, all the fun stuff that friends do together
Then one day something changed
You decided that you weren’t fully happy with your life and wanted to do something different
You wanted to make some changes
Your friends stand by you, though they don’t understand, and for the most part everything remains the same
Then you say to yourself, “Did I say changes? I mean BIG changes”
Now your friends are beginning to feel alienated
While you still care about them and want to spend time with them you find that they are less inclined to jump on your bandwagon
As you spend more time together and you discuss your new found passions and ideas they seem reluctant to listen, or don’t seem to care for your new found attitude
As time wears on you find that the things you had in common with your group of friends no longer hold true
You really don’t have similar interests anymore, and coming to an agreement has become the equivalent of grinding nails across the chalkboard
The hardest part for you is that some of your friends are not offering any support for you and your new found passion for change
They are becoming more distant you are becoming more impatient
What if I told you that you had a great group of friends that you would spend time with?
What if this group of friends were new people that you just met who love what you love?
What if they were supportive of any change that you were making that you believed in?
What if this meant letting go and moving forward with a new group of friends behind you?
That sounds like progress to me
Cheers
Gabriel
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