3 Tips to Avoid The Christmas Crisis

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Ah the holidays

Seriously who doesn’t love this time of year? The food. The friends. The family. The Gifts. Who doesn’t love the overall vibe and general awesomeness that occurs during the months leading to the new year? Hell even if you don’t have the same sugar and gum drops view of Christmas as me, you at least get to revel in the fact that you are not buried in paperwork at your job.

So we have established that the holidays kick ass, but then why is it that everyone seems to completely loose their shit during this time of year? They panic and fret over every little thing and it leads people to view the holidays in the worst way possible instead of viewing it for what it really is, a time of stillness and good feelings. Maybe you are caught in this trap yourself. Do you find yourself panicking to buy the perfect gift for your significant other? Are you stressing about whether or not you should attend your office Christmas party and get wasted off eggnog? Are you trying to buy everyone and their mother a stocking stuffer that will amount some level of meaning other than the financial expense you incurred? Fear not, I have a simple guide laid out here that will allow you to cut bullshit out of this holiday season and allow you to focus on the things that really matter to you.

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Hurry Up And Get Patience

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The last few weeks have been truly awesome for me, I have been developing and changing a list that is a bucket list of sorts for things, and more importantly, aspects about myself that I want to improve upon and change for the better. The list is constantly evolving and it has been extremely liberating for me to write down and take action towards many areas of my life that were either being given little to no attention.

In this soap opera love story that is me improving myself for the better, I have come across many new and important principles that I have deided should become a big part of my new tao on life. On of these new principles revolves around the idea of having patience. This is a concept that I always new was important, but would many times find myself recicting patience filled mantras to myself in boring situations in order to prevent an ulcer or me jumping out of my seat at the drop of a hat.

My new take on patience is more of the dictionary.com definition,

“the quality of being patient, as the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation, or the like.”

In the Myspace and Facebook lid en world we live in, where everyone has their face buried in a screen filled with instant gratification, its easy to forget these things. Essentially it means going with the flow and not fighting against yourself or elements that are out of your control. By realizing that certain things are going to be out of your hands and will unfold in ways you may not be able to predict, you can exert not only a level of patience and tranquility of these potential stressful situations, but you can feel at ease knowing that certain things are best left to fate.

This doesn’t mean you should look at yourself in the mirror everyday for a year and think that having patience will get that beer belly and love handles erased. But it does mean that when there is a child crying in a movie theatre you do not get angry and frustrated a situation that is A) out of your hands and B) not really that big of a deal.

I recently came across a story that really put some things into perspective for me about what it means to be patient and trying to exert less control over your life, and I think it just might help some of you guys in the journey to being a more patient person (and by some of you guys I mean everyone 😉 )

There was an old man who was known as the wisest man in a certain village. Whenever someone wanted council they would go see this man. One day a farmer went to him and said, “A horrible thing has happened to me: My ox died. I’m a farmer and I depended upon that ox to get my fields plowed and my crops planted. Now I can’t plant my crops and I’m going to starve. Do you agree that this is the worst possible thing that could have happened to me? The wise man said, “Maybe so, maybe not.”

The very next day the farmer looked out his window and saw a strong, sturdy horse come galloping up to his farm. The farmer wouldn’t have tried to catch the horse if he had still had the ox, but the ox’s death led him to go out and catch the horse. It turned out that the horse was much younger and stronger than the ox and could plow ground much faster. Because of this, over the next couple of weeks, the man was able to plant twice as much as he would have been able to plant with the ox.

The man went back to the wise man and said, “I owe you an apology.” Then he told him the story about the horse. He finished the story by saying, “You were right. My ox dying wasn’t the worst thing that could have happened. It was a blessing in disguise. The best thing that could have happened to me was getting this horse.” The wise man said, “Maybe so, maybe not.”

Three days later the farmer’s son took the horse out for a ride. But the horse threw him and the fall broke both of the son’s legs. Since the young man was the only worker the farmer had to help him get in his crops, the farmer was devastated. He went back to the wise man and said, “How did you know that me catching that horse was not going to be a good thing? My son getting both his legs broken has to be the worst thing that ever happened to me.” The wise man said, “Maybe so, maybe not.”

The very next day troops came to the village to take every young man away to fight a war that had just broken out. The only young man who wasn’t taken was the farmer’s son who was laid up with those two broken legs. Tragically, a few days later the village got word that every one of those young men had been killed in that war.

So remember, relax and practice patience, because no matter what bullshit is going on in your life right now, its all good at the end of the day.

Entrepreneur Quotes That Will Earn You 100 Billion Dollars

Random? Yes. Cool Shot? Hell Yes.

Random? Yes. Cool Shot? Hell Yes.

I have been reading a lot of books lately, mostly in an attempt to absorb as much information about business and entrepreneurs as possible. Why? You might be wondering. Simply put, I am trying to engross myself into the mindset of what it takes to be a successful and fun loving business man. I have always known that I was not that keen on working for someone else, throughout the course of my life I was always looking at tasks and jobs and viewing them under a magnifying glass and looking at the various ways that they were effective and also ineffective. That notion compounded with the fact that I knew I would never work as a corporate mule for 50+ hours a week has caused me to create and run 3 small companies over the years. After recently immersing myself into the world of self start business, I have realized that while working for others might be a necessary means to an end, ultimately there are not enough companies with the same vision and purpose that I have in life, so I have no desire to work for them. Getting my own business up and running is going to be crucial for my future life adventures, and I must say I am damned excited to put together a plan and get the ball rolling.

So in Lou of this, I decided to post up some of the better entrepreneurial quotes I have read over the years, and give you guys a small taste of some of the genius that is floating around in the business world today. In the meantime I will get back to pouring my passions into reading and planning this future career, and of course as soon as more concrete information on what I am working on comes together, you guys will be the first to know.

On to the quotes that will make you rich (results may vary depending on how much of a punk you are)

When you reach an obstacle, turn it into an opportunity. You have the choice. You can overcome and be a winner, or you can allow it to overcome you and be a loser. The choice is yours and yours alone. Refuse to throw in the towel. Go that extra mile that failures refuse to travel. It is far better to be exhausted from success than to be rested from failure.

-Mary Kay Ash, founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics

If you can dream it, you can do it.

-Walt Disney, founder of Disney Corporation

The key is to just get on the bike, and the key to getting on the bike… is to stop thinking about ‘there are a bunch of reasons I might fall off’ and just hop on and peddle the damned thing. You can pick up a map, a tire pump, and better footwear along the way.

-Dick Costolo, founder of Feedburner.com

I made a resolve then that I was going to amount to something if I could. And no hours, nor amount of labor, nor amount of money would deter me from giving the best that there was in me. And I have done that ever since, and I win by it. I know.

-Colonel Sanders, founder of KFC

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

-Steve Jobs, founder of Apple

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work

-Thomas Edison, founder of General Electric

Failure defeats losers, failure inspires winners

-Robert T. Kiyosaki, author, entrepreneur, investor

Once you say you’re going to settle for second, that’s what happens to you in life

-John F. Kennedy, U.S. President

Watch, listen, learn. You can’t know it all yourself.. anyone who thinks they do is destined for mediocrity

-Donald Trump, founder of the Trump Organization

You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job, and not be paid for it.

-Oprah Winfrey founder of Oprah Inc

And one more to really get you off your ass

Some people dream of great accomplishments, while others stay awake and do them

–Anonymous

Motivational Cartoons That Will Make You Grin Like an Idiot

Here are a collection of motivational cartoons (I know, the most random thing ever) that either kicked my ass into gear, or at the very least got a good laugh out of me. Keeping it nice and light for your upcoming weekend, just make sure you don’t lounge around to much this weekend and get some shit done that you want to do.

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The Swine Flu Epidemic and How to Not Fit In

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Time for me to get on the soap box a bit, children please avert your eyes directly to this post. One of the most interesting things about the news to me is how overall negative and pessimistic it is as a whole. National news fairs only slightly better, occasionally offering updates and reports on very positive and upbeat things that are occurring in the world around us, but I would go as far as to say that 80 percent of news stories (especially local news) are filled with nothing but crime, fear reports, and other overly negative things that apparently people enjoy watching.

Now what the hell does this have to do with swine flu and being a crowd follower? Unfortunately way to much

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